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Meet TFI’s expert practitioners from around the world and learn what drives them and their work,
how do they address the dimensions of their lives, and what their journey has been like. 


These aren’t off-the-cuff and rapid-fire Q & A’s, but deeper, reflective conversations with some
amazing takeaways. 


Preeti Dmello


An inspirational leader and coach, someone who believes “there is a better way” to live.

She is at the helm of TFI, translating her vision for Fulfillment into a reality, guiding TFI’s transformative work. Many of you would have spoken to or worked with her, watched her Masterclasses, read her inimitable takes on her LinkedIn profile and elsewhere. And now, you probably are getting insightful nuggets from her Substack sharing. 

Always curious about her amazing capacity and perspectives, we posed some critical questions to Preeti, and received deep wisdom that talks of curiosity, courage, trust and willingness.  

An inspirational leader and coach, someone who believes “there is a better way” to live.

She is at the helm of TFI, translating her vision for Fulfillment into a reality, guiding TFI’s transformative work. Many of you would have spoken to or worked with her, watched her Masterclasses, read her inimitable takes on her LinkedIn profile and elsewhere. And now, you probably are getting insightful nuggets from her Substack sharing. 

Always curious about her amazing capacity and perspectives, we posed some critical questions to Preeti, and received deep wisdom that talks of curiosity, courage, trust and willingness.  


Q. What is it that fires you up about the work you are doing?.

The gap—and the courage it takes to close it.
I've spent 35 years watching intelligent, accomplished people struggle—not because they lack skill, but because they've optimized for the wrong things. They've built impressive careers while losing connection to why any of it matters.

What fires me up is helping someone move from where they are to who they can be. When a leader discovers they don't have to choose between achieving and thriving—that fulfillment isn't a reward for success but the foundation of it—everything changes. Their presence shifts. Their decisions deepen. Their impact ripples outward.

We're living through tremendous complexity right now: AI reshaping work, geopolitical uncertainty, organizations struggling to retain talent, people questioning what success even means. The old models aren't working. It takes courage to say that out loud—and more courage to build something different.I believe there's a better way. One that integrates the wisdom of ancient traditions with what we now know about human development. And I've seen it work, at scale, with real results. That conviction—and the courage to act on it—is what keeps me going.



Q. In life's journey, what has helped you pick yourself up and reclaim life when it hasn't gone the way you would have liked?

My practice—and the courage to stay present when everything in me wanted to look away.
I was initiated into meditation at twelve. Over decades—studying the Bhagavad Gita, practicing Kriya Yoga, learning to sit with myself—I discovered something the yogis have always known: there's a ground beneath the ground. A place you can stand when everything around you is shifting.

The Sanskrit word is Purna—wholeness, completeness. The teaching is simple: you are already whole. Not after you achieve enough. Not once circumstances improve. Already.

But here's what they don't tell you:
 returning to that ground takes courage. It's easier to distract yourself, to keep moving, to numb. Staying present with disappointment, with loss, with uncertainty—that requires a different kind of strength.

When life hasn't gone the way I'd hoped, I return there. Not through denial, but through practice. Through presence. Through the courage to feel what's true and trust that something new can emerge from it.

Q. Your insights are always remarkable. What makes you look and listen closely and think so clearly?

Curiosity, practice, and a willingness to work with what's emerging rather than forcing what I think should happen.

I genuinely believe every person has the capacity to grow. When you approach someone with that belief, you listen differently. You're not diagnosing problems—you're noticing what's trying to emerge.
Years of working across systems taught me to see patterns. Individual struggles often reflect something larger. That executive's burnout isn't just personal; it's telling you something about the system she's operating in. When you look at both levels simultaneously, clarity comes.

My spiritual practice helps too. Meditation cultivates what the yogis call witness consciousness—the capacity to be with what is, without rushing to fix or judge. Gestalt psychology taught me to trust the emergent: what wants to happen in this moment, between these people, right now? When I stop trying to be clever and simply attend to what's present, insight has room to arise.

Clear thinking, for me, is less about effort and more about trusting the process—getting out of the way and letting something wiser come through.


Q. You have done stellar large system work with huge organizations so successfully, YET keeping individual fulfillment at the core. How does that work?

Because they're not separate—and it takes courage to insist on that when conventional wisdom says otherwise.
Early on, I thought I had to choose: work with individuals or work with systems. But I kept observing the same pattern: you can coach people brilliantly, but if the system keeps pulling them back, the transformation doesn't hold. And you can redesign structures beautifully, but if you haven't shifted consciousness, nothing actually changes.

So I learned to work both levels at once—and to trust what emerges when you do.

When I built the LeaD Academy and Coaching Centre of Excellence, the goal wasn't to impose a predetermined model. It was to create conditions where growth could actually take root, and then work with what emerged. Psychological safety. Developmental culture. Leadership modeling from the top. Real-time learning from what was actually happening on the ground.

The insight is simple: individual fulfillment drives organizational success. Not the other way around. When you treat people as whole humans capable of flourishing—and design systems that support that flourishing—performance takes care of itself.

The results speak: 12,000+ leaders coached, PRISM 2021 recognition, measurable shifts in culture. It works because it addresses the whole picture—and because we had the courage to keep learning as we went.

Q. As a senior and experienced Professional and Practitioner, what would you look for in a Leader and in a Coach?

In a leader:
courage and the capacity for self-mastery.

I've met brilliant strategists who couldn't sit with discomfort. Polished communicators unaware of how they actually land. Capability is everywhere. What's rare is the courage to look at yourself honestly—and keep looking.
I look for leaders who understand they're instruments. That how they are, shapes what they do. I want to see humility—genuine recognition that there's always more to learn. And courage: the willingness to be vulnerable, to admit uncertainty, to grow visibly, to make the hard call when the easy path is right there.

In a coach: presence and the ability to work with the emergent.

Many coaches accumulate techniques—good questions, useful frameworks. But transformational coaching doesn't come from technique. It comes from who you're being with another person. Can you create space where someone feels safe enough to meet themselves? Can you hold complexity without rushing to resolve it?

The best coaches I know trust emergence. They don't force the conversation toward their agenda. They stay present, notice what's arising, and follow what wants to happen. That takes courage too—the courage to not know, to let go of control, to trust that something larger is at work.

Technique teaches you what to say. Presence teaches you how to be. Courage lets you stay when it gets uncomfortable. All three matter—but together, they make the work sacred.

We have all been there with that quiet tug in the stomach that tells us something is right or wrong long before our minds have the facts to back it up. A sudden heaviness before a tough decision, often dismissed as overthinking. A flutter of excitement that feels like a green light. We call it a gut feeling, almost as if it is just a figure of speech.
But what if, deep inside us, a silent partner is constantly gathering information, processing emotions, and whispering advice before we even know we are listening?



Say Hello to

Preeti Dmello 

We are fortunate at TFI to have her at the helm translating her vision for Fulfillment into a reality, guiding transformative programs and initiatives. Many of you would have spoken to or worked with her, watched her Masterclasses, read her inimitable takes on her linkedin profile and elsewhere. And now, you probably are getting great insights from her Substack sharing at ……..
 
Always curious about her amazing capacity and perspectives, we posed some critical questions to Preeti, and received deep wisdom that talks of curiosity, courage, practice, trust and willingness.   

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Preeti Dmello is an inspirational person, leader and coach, someone who believes “there is a better way” to live.
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Q. What is it that fires you up about the work you are doing?.
The gap—and the courage it takes to close it.
I've spent 35 years watching intelligent, accomplished people struggle—not because they lack skill, but because they've optimized for the wrong things. They've built impressive careers while losing connection to why any of it matters.

What fires me up is helping someone move from where they are to who they can be. When a leader discovers they don't have to choose between achieving and thriving—that fulfillment isn't a reward for success but the foundation of it—everything changes. Their presence shifts. Their decisions deepen. Their impact ripples outward.

We're living through tremendous complexity right now: AI reshaping work, geopolitical uncertainty, organizations struggling to retain talent, people questioning what success even means. The old models aren't working. It takes courage to say that out loud—and more courage to build something different.

I believe there's a better way. One that integrates the wisdom of ancient traditions with what we now know about human development. And I've seen it work, at scale, with real results. That conviction—and the courage to act on it—is what keeps me going.
The gap—and the courage it takes to close it.
I've spent 35 years watching intelligent, accomplished people struggle—not because they lack skill, but because they've optimized for the wrong things. They've built impressive careers while losing connection to why any of it matters.

What fires me up is helping someone move from where they are to who they can be. When a leader discovers they don't have to choose between achieving and thriving—that fulfillment isn't a reward for success but the foundation of it—everything changes. Their presence shifts. Their decisions deepen. Their impact ripples outward.

We're living through tremendous complexity right now: AI reshaping work, geopolitical uncertainty, organizations struggling to retain talent, people questioning what success even means. The old models aren't working. It takes courage to say that out loud—and more courage to build something different.

I believe there's a better way. One that integrates the wisdom of ancient traditions with what we now know about human development. And I've seen it work, at scale, with real results. That conviction—and the courage to act on it—is what keeps me going.


Q. In life's journey, what has helped you pick yourself up and reclaim life when it hasn't gone the way you would have liked?
My practice—and the courage to stay present when everything in me wanted to look away.
I was initiated into meditation at twelve. Over decades—studying the Bhagavad Gita, practicing Kriya Yoga, learning to sit with myself—I discovered something the yogis have always known: there's a ground beneath the ground. A place you can stand when everything around you is shifting.

The Sanskrit word is Purna—wholeness, completeness. The teaching is simple: you are already whole. Not after you achieve enough. Not once circumstances improve. Already.

But here's what they don't tell you: returning to that ground takes courage. It's easier to distract yourself, to keep moving, to numb. Staying present with disappointment, with loss, with uncertainty—that requires a different kind of strength.

When life hasn't gone the way I'd hoped, I return there. Not through denial, but through practice. Through presence. Through the courage to feel what's true and trust that something new can emerge from it.


Q. Your insights are always remarkable. What makes you look and listen closely and think so clearly?
Curiosity, practice, and a willingness to work with what's emerging rather than forcing what I think should happen.
I genuinely believe every person has the capacity to grow. When you approach someone with that belief, you listen differently. You're not diagnosing problems—you're noticing what's trying to emerge.

Years of working across systems taught me to see patterns. Individual struggles often reflect something larger. That executive's burnout isn't just personal; it's telling you something about the system she's operating in. When you look at both levels simultaneously, clarity comes.

My spiritual practice helps too. Meditation cultivates what the yogis call witness consciousness—the capacity to be with what is, without rushing to fix or judge. Gestalt psychology taught me to trust the emergent: what wants to happen in this moment, between these people, right now? When I stop trying to be clever and simply attend to what's present, insight has room to arise.

Clear thinking, for me, is less about effort and more about trusting the process—getting out of the way and letting something wiser come through.


Q. You have done stellar large system work with huge organizations so successfully, YET keeping individual fulfillment at the core. How does that work?
Because they're not separate—and it takes courage to insist on that when conventional wisdom says otherwise.
Early on, I thought I had to choose: work with individuals or work with systems. But I kept observing the same pattern: you can coach people brilliantly, but if the system keeps pulling them back, the transformation doesn't hold. And you can redesign structures beautifully, but if you haven't shifted consciousness, nothing actually changes.

So I learned to work both levels at once—and to trust what emerges when you do.

When I built the LeaD Academy and Coaching Centre of Excellence, the goal wasn't to impose a predetermined model. It was to create conditions where growth could actually take root, and then work with what emerged. Psychological safety. Developmental culture. Leadership modeling from the top. Real-time learning from what was actually happening on the ground.

The insight is simple: individual fulfillment drives organizational success. Not the other way around. When you treat people as whole humans capable of flourishing—and design systems that support that flourishing—performance takes care of itself.

The results speak: 12,000+ leaders coached, PRISM 2021 recognition, measurable shifts in culture. It works because it addresses the whole picture—and because we had the courage to keep learning as we went.


Q. As a senior and experienced Professional and Practitioner, what would you look for in a Leader and in a Coach?
In a leader: courage and the capacity for self-mastery.

I've met brilliant strategists who couldn't sit with discomfort. Polished communicators unaware of how they actually land. Capability is everywhere. What's rare is the courage to look at yourself honestly—and keep looking.
I look for leaders who understand they're instruments. That how they are, shapes what they do. I want to see humility—genuine recognition that there's always more to learn. And courage: the willingness to be vulnerable, to admit uncertainty, to grow visibly, to make the hard call when the easy path is right there.

In a coach: presence and the ability to work with the emergent.

Many coaches accumulate techniques—good questions, useful frameworks. But transformational coaching doesn't come from technique. It comes from who you're being with another person. Can you create space where someone feels safe enough to meet themselves? Can you hold complexity without rushing to resolve it?

The best coaches I know trust emergence. They don't force the conversation toward their agenda. They stay present, notice what's arising, and follow what wants to happen. That takes courage too—the courage to not know, to let go of control, to trust that something larger is at work.

Technique teaches you what to say. Presence teaches you how to be. Courage lets you stay when it gets uncomfortable. All three matter—but together, they make the work sacred.
Hidden in the lining of our digestive tract is the enteric nervous system—a vast network of more than 100 million nerve cells (Fleming et al., 2020). Scientists call it our “second brain.” While it will not help us solve a crossword puzzle or write a novel, it is remarkable in another way. It keeps a constant conversation going with our main brain, sending messages about safety, stress, comfort, and instinctive responses along the gut-brain axis.
Think about how anxiety knots our stomach or excitement sends butterflies fluttering through our belly. That is not coincidence, but communication. Our gut is sensing, responding, and informing us in real time, often faster than our conscious minds can.
When we say “trust your gut,” it is not just a saying. Our gut processes information rapidly, pulling from patterns and experiences stored deep in our bodies. Sometimes, it notices what our thinking minds have not caught yet. Meeting someone new, we might feel uneasy without knowing why—our body has already picked up on tiny shifts in tone, posture, or energy that remind us of past experiences (Nogrady, 2024).
The same thing happens with good opportunities. We may feel a rush of lightness or pull toward something that excites us, thanks to the chemicals and signals our gut sends when a choice aligns with our deeper instincts. Intuition is not magic; it is our body’s way of fast-tracking decisions, built on everything we have learned and lived.
If our “second brain” is shaping so much of our lives, maybe it is time we listened more closely. That means slowing down, especially when decisions feel confusing. Instead of dismissing a gut feeling as irrational, we can treat it as another source of wisdom.
When we pause, we notice the subtler cues—the tension in our belly, the unexpected calm settling in, the feeling of being pulled toward or away from something. Supporting our gut health with nourishing food, rest, and stress care also keeps those signals clearer, making our inner compass easier to read. And sometimes the best thing we can do is step away from overthinking and ask, “What does my gut say?” before logic takes over.
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